Attention Smoothing Is All You Need For Unlearning

Abstract: LLMs are prone to memorizing sensitive, copyrighted, or hazardous content, posing significant privacy and legal concerns. Retraining from scratch is computationally infeasible, whereas current unlearning methods exhibit unstable trade-offs between forgetting and utility, frequently producing incoherent outputs on forget prompts and failing to generalize due to the persistence of lexical-level and semantic-level associations in attention. We propose Attention Smoothing Unlearning (ASU), a principled framework that casts unlearning as self-distillation from a forget-teacher derived from the model's own attention. By increasing the softmax temperature, ASU flattens attention distributions and directly suppresses the lexical-level and semantic-level associations responsible for reconstructing memorized knowledge. This results in a bounded optimization objective that erases factual information yet maintains coherence in responses to forget prompts. Empirical evaluation on TOFU, MUSE, and WMDP, along with real-world and continual unlearning scenarios across question answering and text completion, demonstrates that ASU outperforms the baselines for most unlearning scenarios, delivering robust unlearning with minimal loss of model utility.