Abstract: For a family F of sets and a disjoint pair A,B we let F(A,B)=F∈F:A⊆F, B∩F=∅. The \textbf{(p,q)-d\"omd\"od\"om} of a family F⊆2<sup>[n] is βp,q(F)=min∣F(A,B)∣:∣A∣=p,∣B∣=q,A∩B=∅,A,B⊆[n]. This definition encompasses size, diversity, minimum degree, and sturdiness as special cases. We investigate the maximum possible value βp,q(n,k) of βp,q(F) over all k-uniform intersecting families F⊂2<sup>[n]. We determine the order of magnitude of βp,q(n,k) for all fixed p,q,k. We relate the asymptotics of βp,q(n,k) to the constant value of β0,q(n,q+1) and establish βp,1(n,k)=(k−2−pn−3−p) and βp,2(n,k)=2(k−3−pn−5)−(k−5−pn−7) if n is large enough.